HOW TO SAVE A MARRIAGE

PEOPLE FALL IN LOVE, SO THEY MARRY
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Basic questions are important to be answered at the start of a marriage like inquiring about your spouse's goals in life, ambitions, aspirations, number of children expected, and ways of how to keep the passion and how to keep the physical affection within the marriage. When a couple ties the knot, they are so in love and infatuated with each other that they fail to know how their partner feels about the inevitable life alternative marrying decision.


ARE THESE SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
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Think of healthy need that you want to accomplish that your spouse can easily fulfill. If your spouse stays on one side of the bed while sleeping and intimacy has become a forgotten item on your agenda then this is a red big flag that your marriage is falling apart. If your spouse thinks you are joking, just repeat your request. If your spouse doesn't, they will again refuse and think you're crazy. when your spouse has a mood swing, don't get defensive or you will start another problem. If your spouse no longer reacts to those critical spats that once held a significant value to them or is no longer the initiator of spats and arguments with you like they use to, then that is a definite sign that the marriage could be coming to an end. You have to show that you are on your spouses side and that you care when they are in a bad mood.


WHAT ARE YOU DOING AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
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The opportunity to react is ever present. Your negative reaction to your marriage crisis could declare war against your spouse by being insulting, talking negatively to your spouse or by physical assaults. Face the problem with confidence and courage and this will change your life. When you read it, it is not good enough, so you tear it up and write a better one. A possible reaction to a marital crisis could be that you tried to control your spouse or talk your spouse into not leaving you.


ARE THERE COMMON REACTIONS FELT IN A MARITAL CRISIS?
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Pessimism is the feeling that there is no solution available and even marriage counselors cannot help. What are some damaging myths about saving a marriage?
Myth 1. Each path must be treated differently because want is good for one may not be good for the other. You can't save your marriage if your spouse does not cooperate.


HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Here are some helpful pieces of advice. Talk to your friends, support group and others acquaintances that might be knowledgeable about the affair. Infidelity does not mean that the marriage is over because surviving infidelity and healing your relationship is possible.


WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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Many people abandon their dreams when after they marry. Couples do no always engage in rational discussion. Give your spouse space to grow and fulfill their dreams. Changing your partner's mind by your arguments is futile. Treat your spouse with kindness and courtesy. It does not matter who is right or wrong when you argue. There is history of unhappiness behind words and you cannot change history since a history of dissatisfaction has build up.


CAN MARRIAGE BE PRESERVED BY YOU?
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Don't use the children as an excuse to avoid each other. At least once a week, go on a date to energize your relationship. Devote time each day for your spouse and let him know that he is in your thoughts all the time. This is the most damaging causing people to procrastinate and react properly. Myth 2. Make your spouse your number 1 priority over your kids and work. You are both their parents, it is unfair to use them as a shield for the action.


HOW CAN YOU SAVE A MARRIAGE?
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According to statistics, there are 2 million divorces each year. The answer is positive. You transform into a much better new you.





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